Life

Tuesday, 9^th February

It is my dad's birthday next week. We are still in contact, but we are not close. He lives in Boston now, that is one reason why I worked there for 2 years. After we had lived in London for 2 years, he was offered a promotion, which meant moving to Singapore. I have no interest in the far east, he had loved it. We had gone to check it out, I could not cope with the climate. So I came to boarding school in Upsalla. My aunt wanted me to stay with her, but my father was afraid I would not be academically stretched at the “village school”. So I spent most of my holidays with her. My father stayed in Singapore for 14 years. He met this American woman there, she had joined her husband, but her marriage was falling apart. She did not like Singapore either, and her husband had met a local woman. Her children were almost grown up and had opted to stay in the States, so she came back to Boston, and my father followed her. They are now happily married and apparently he has a very good relationship with her children and grand children. They also breed Shiatzu dogs. I can never imagine my father with a lap dog.

The last time I spoke to my father was just before the wedding. I had phoned him to tell him all about it, and he seemed happy for us. He knows about my old Master, and I have been honest with him about me and the slave. He has his difficulties with it, but as long as I am happy, he accepts it. I think the same about his 2^nd marriage, I do not like her, she is too New England rich American for my taste. Anyway, I have sent him a proper card and organised a present. He will be 65.

Wednesday, 10^th February

Usually this is our day, but I allowed him to have a driving lesson. They still stayed on quieter roads, but he was better. Martin and I checked out some premises this morning. It was too small. It is difficult to imagine how big a space is, even if I know how big our current premises are, but it also depends on the layout.

Ben had prepared lunch when I came home, and then he wanted to check out IKEA. A bit further south is a super super store, a tourist attraction. I put a harness on him which I had recently bought, plugged him at both ends, his coat cuffs and a leather collar over his collar. We enjoyed testing lots of furniture and even bought the obligatory tea lights. We got some funny looks, maybe they noticed his collar, maybe it was the way I talked to him. We both enjoyed it. I never thought I could be so open in my behaviour.

In the evening we lit the candles and I put him into his sleep sack on the living room floor. We cuddled, well, I cuddled him and he gave me a delicious blow job.

Thursday, 11^th February

I have noticed how I post on certain days. Well, the other days we are busy with our routines I guess and nothing interesting happens. The boy enjoys his sessions at the Bhuddist Centre's kitchen, and I enjoy the meditation classes.

Lasse is ill again, the doctor reckons it is still his virus. The doctor has recommended a stay in a warmer climate. They will travel to Teneriffe for 4 weeks, the same time when we are away. I thought of offering the apartment to Mats and Sahid for that time, as Mats will be here decorating. I will give it to them for free, as long as they clean it afterwards and keep an eye on the house and take over P/L's duties. We have no bookings for it that week anyway.

The boy had a letter from his mother, his oldest brother has another child on the way, their 3^rd. Reading between the lines, his mother is not too happy, as the children get dumped on her a lot. He is a hot shot in the DA's department, wants a political career, and his wife is the typical politicians wife, attending lots of functions.

Barbara and Erik are doing fine, both keep busy with work. They had a rush of interest in the house, but think most people just wanted to have a look around.

The slave and I will leave for Munich on Wednesday, 17^th. Then we are checking out a club near Frankfurt, Friday we will meet Martin and Ursula in Berlin for 2 nights. It will be a busy week, from Berlin we will travel to Holland for 2 nights, and then England for 2 nights. We will be back on Thursday, 25^th February.

I am deliberately not mentioning which clubs we will go to, but if you happen to recognise us, feel free to say hello.