I have to take charge

Friday, 24^th March

Ben stacked the logs on Wednesday, and overdid it of course. I should have remembered and FORBID him to do it. He might have listened and obeyed. When I came back from my shift Per and Lasse were at home, he had called them. I am glad he thought to do so. He just felt a bit unwell, but was ok in general. Apparently his OCD took over and he could not stop himself from stacking. He did go to his classes and to Yoga on Thursday. I took the opportunity to invite P/L for lunch on Sunday. I did not tell him off. I hope this time he finally learned his lesson.

I had some patients I treated before, and some were pleased to see me, that was a nice experience. At the hospital one sees a patient once or twice, and most of the time they are asleep, so to see someone and be involved longer and see how someone is getting better is actually quite nice. I managed to get a little bit of study in, thank good that I am used to crazy hours.

I saw Ben for only a short time Thursday evening, it feels strange to see so little of him. He went to the cinema with some people from yoga, they had arranged it at class. He phoned me at work to check if it was ok. I was pleased for him to have some social time. He came back just after I was at home, they had gone for a drink after the movie. I had just made some tea, so we had a cup together and then we both went to bed. This morning we have both been to the gym. I came home and had to got to work. Again, Ben and I had a drink together after I came home from work, he had the fire on, I am sitting on my own here now waiting for the fire to die down and then I am off to bed as well. He met our new neighbours as he was walking Django, it turns out the cottage is protected due to it's heritage. The couple want to move here permanently, he is an architect and wants to build a very modern extension. We do not have to worry about being overlooked. Ben says they seem very nice. He was tired from a busy day, he did a big shop in the afternoon after walking Django, we are supposed to get a snow storm. Unusual for end of March, but we had snow this time last year, too. I am quite looking forward to have Saturday with Ben, although I have to do some studying. I think it is quite good for us to spend a bit more time apart again.