Wednesday, 5 August 2015

We are establishing a routine


Friday, 10th July

So it is official. The slave will stay with me. I left him tied up until it was time to go back to the flat, only removing his gag from time to time to give him some drink. I had a night shift followed by a day shift, so the slave was left alone at the flat all night and day. He had a double language lesson, which I managed to arrange yesterday, as he was indisposed on Thursday. I instructed him to make a cake. He has never baked here before, I have no idea if he can bake. I have arranged to meet him at the gym after my shift. I skyped Barbara from the hospital, she was very happy with the news. I also spoke to Robert, this was the first time I had seen him since his diagnosis. I was shocked by what I saw. This was a man, although not physically impressive, who could walk into a bar brawl and just by his calm presence made everyone stop and return to their beers. I did not tell them about the slaves disobedience to me, it would have disappointed them. This was an issue between him and me. I told them how the slave had asked for my permission to be my slave, and that made Robert very happy, he had trained him well. We talked about the divorce procedure, how to get the slave registered to me as his Master, and the logistics of shipping his stuff. This had all been discussed before, but now it was for real.



Sunday, 12th July

The boy excelled with the cake, as I said before, he applies himself 100% to a new task. After the gym we went home to have a shower, but before then the boy gave me pleasure. It seems he wanted to make it up to me.

In the evening we went to the club, it was Master and slave night. I do not know any Master/slave that I am friends with, except Per and Lasse, but they are not a couple we could hang out with. It was nice to introduce Ben as my slave. On these evenings often slaves get a chance to talk to other slaves in private, but on this occasion I kept Ben close to me, I know he is not very confident talking to strangers. We did not stay very long, but as owner of the club I feel obliged to turn up. A lot of couples travel from the country for these evenings and stay all weekend. The apartment is let at a discount for these weekends.

Saturday I had a day off and we used a friends holiday house in the archipelago.

This morning was hectic as I suddenly remembered I have the builders booked in at the house next week. They are installing solar panels. The slave will stay at the house, I have long shifts as a colleague is on holiday, but I do not mind travelling 40 minutes instead of 10 minutes walk, as I have the slave to prepare my meals and help me relax. So we packed some stuff, any perishable food, and locked up the flat. I think the slave prefers the house as well, at least in the summer it is nicer than the flat.



Saturday, 18th July

We had notice that the divorce in Canada is through! The paperwork was completed before the slave left, they just needed to fill in the dates. The families solicitor had proxy right to sign any paperwork on the slaves behalf, and the rather conservative district judge had no problem granting a divorce. The slave has to sign a document himself and get it witnessed by a notary, but that is just a formality. This means we can apply for a marriage license here. The slave had mixed feelings about the news, despite the marriage only being a formality, it makes the finality of his decision to move to Sweden even more real.

We had a difficult time with the builders, one of them made life for the slave very hard. He kept talking badly about him to his colleagues in Swedish. The slave did not understand all the words, but he grasped the tone. The colleagues were not happy either, they kept telling him to shut up. The electrician, not my boy. On the Thursday, the slave came back from his language lesson and yoga, they had discovered the playroom. We had used it the evening before and the slave had forgotten to lock it after he cleaned it in the morning, before rushing off, as of course he has a longer journey as well. The electrician was alone at the house, his colleague had gone to get a part. The guy suddenly spoke very good English and made advances to the slave. He had been taught self defence, but he was so shocked, he forgot all about it. Luckily the colleague arrived, along with Per and Lasse, who we had invited for drinks. Per is a slight man, but he is a sadist, and can be very scary. Luckily the colleague managed to drag the offender off before Per could do too much damage. I was stuck in surgery and really not happy when I came home 3 hours later than planned and found my boy still shaking. Per and Lasse stayed the night, as I had to go to work early on Friday, so they could supervise the builders. Only the nice guy turned up, along with the manager. The manager assured us the offending person had been dismissed. They finished the work quickly and Per and Lasse wanted to take my boy to the sauna, which he is not allowed. He opted to go the gym instead, and then went back to the flat, where I picked him up and we travelled to the house together. After dinner we spent some time in the playroom, and extended it to the living room as well, where the attack happened. I wanted to implant some positive memories in him. I was really too tired for a long session, but I knew I had to impose my influence as soon as possible.



Tuesday, 21st July

Finally a day off and we spent it dealing with bureaucracy. I thought the process would be easier.

To be honest, I should have looked into it before we started this whole procedure, but then getting the slave a new home was a matter of urgency. The boy's legal status is quite complicated as he has still US citizenship, but had a permanent right to stay in Canada due his marriage. He has to apply for residency here in Sweden, but apparently he has to do that at the Swedish embassy in his country of last residence, in person. We can get married anyway, but the Swedish tax authority needs to do some investigations into his and my finances. I have to prove that I can support him financially, which is no problem. Luckily Robert and Barbara had set up a company, through which they paid slave no1 and Ben a salary, health insurance and a pension, but the salary went back to them. This way there are financial records for the authority to look into. Ben still receives royalties from his movies into that account.

At the tax office we were baffled how complicated it is. We were advised to get an immigration lawyer to help us. I just do not understand why he needs to apply for residency at the embassy in Canada, in person. I do not want to be racist, but we are obviously not trying to do some immigration scam, like people from a poorer country might do. This system has clearly been designed to put them off. We were still able to apply for a marriage certificate, which should take about 4 weeks to come through, and then we have 4 months to get the marriage officiated.



Friday, 31st July

A colleague had to cancel her holiday due to illness in the family, so we have swapped date. Usually

my colleagues with children take time off during school holidays, and I take it in term time. We will spend 2 weeks with my aunt at her farm in Dalarna. Per and Lasse will look after the properties.

We have consulted an immigration lawyer, who advised us to get married and sort everything else later. Apparently once we are married the residency is a formality. Ben can stay in Sweden for up to 12 months before he needs residency, as I support him. When we first talked about me taking the boy, I thought the marriage would mean signing some forms at a government office, now I would like to make it a bit more special.



Saturday, 1st August

We went to pick up the hire car and we thought it might be better to get the boy as additional driver. More bureaucracy! His driving license is Canadian, and they need the passport, which is US. So we forgot about that, I am stuck doing all the driving. I had a shift today, I asked the boy to pack. I told him to pack some gear of his choice. It will be interesting to see what he picked. I limited it to 9 items. My aunt knows all about our lifestyle, I consulted here when I was first told about the boy's situation, and she is eager to meet him. I cannot believe it is just over 8 weeks that he came here, we have established a good relationship, and I do not want to miss him. I think he still gets homesick sometimes, usually I take him to the playroom when I notice he is getting down.

Well, I better get some sleep, we have a long drive ahead of us.





Monday, 3rd August

The drive to Dalarna was long, but easy. The boy enjoyed seeing the country side. He has lived in small towns, so living in Stockholm has been a bit of a culture shock to him. I sent him to order food or to pay for petrol so he can practise his Swedish. In the country people do not automatically switch to English. He was very shy to meet my aunt, she had put on a feast for us, forgetting that the boy does not eat much. If he eats properly, than usually breakfast or lunch, that makes it easier to time when he needs the bathroom.

We are staying in a cottage that she usually lets out to holiday makers, but as she had some health issues earlier in the year, she did not want the hassle and cancelled all bookings. There is a small old storage room, which is half a cellar, accessed from the kitchen. We put a mattress in there and the slave should be quite comfortable. Luckily he packed the mixer, so we can prepare his shakes. With the equipment, the tubs of powder and his medical stuff, he had more luggage than me! My aunt runs a dairy farm, together with her son, my cousin, and his wife. She is the younger sister of my father. She was friends with my mother and that is how my parents met. My mother died in a car accident when I was 8 years old. I lived with my aunt for a year, as my father did not cope, and then my father and I moved to London, he had taken a job there. I used to come here every year for the summer holidays. My cousin is like a brother to me. He has 2 small children, Kerstin is 5 and Olav is 3. Ben can certainly get lots of language practise in.



Sunday, 9th August

We have had sunshine and heat for the first week. The kids and Ben are delightful. They understand each other without talking much. Of course they asked questions, about his collar, his stoma and the belt. Explaining the belt was tricky. We were all sitting in the sunshine after coffee and cake, and we had been swimming earlier. We did not even think about removing the belt, he is so used to it, it is totally natural to him. It was a spur of the moment decision to go swimming, we did not even take towels, we all swam naked and dried off in the sun. So, later Kerstin asked what that funny metal thing was on Ben's “boys bits”. Everyone looked expectantly at me, and Ben of course had not understood the question. He enquired what she had asked, and my aunt translated. Ben just laughed and said to me: Well, explain? I could NOT think of an answer. Before we arrived they had been told that we were a couple, like mummy and daddy. They accepted that, at that age kids have no prejudice. They had also been told not to disturb us in the house, but always knock and wait for us to answer the door, they are used to have access all areas. Eventually Ben said: tell her in my country it is symbol of my love for you, like a wedding ring. I translated it for Kerstin and she was happy with that answer.



Thursday, 13th August

Tomorrow we are driving home. It has been raining the last 2 days and the forecast is for more rain.

We had a message that a crate from Canada has arrived at the house today. That was quick! It got shipped in a container, we were lucky to get a space so quickly. The boy is looking forward to unpacking. We managed to get some private time, out in the forest, in the barn. One can do a lot with rope. Yesterday I had him tied to some ancient farm machinery, which meant he had to twist his limbs a bit. I kept changing his position, after 6 hours my hunger made us stop. The kids were away all day, there was no chance to be discovered by them.



Friday, 14th August

The slave is happily asleep in his cage. He requested to sleep in it tonight. The crate is calling him from the garage, but he is not allowed to open it until he has unpacked, washed and ironed our clothes, straightened the houses etc. It will be at least four days before he is allowed near it. I know one item he is specially looking for is his custom made sleep sack. I am going to remove it and give it to him in a few weeks.

He is a good companion when driving. Robert used to be a long distance truck driver, and the first year the slave lived with him he accompanied Robert. He would be “hired out” to other drivers, that is how he developed his skills in giving blow jobs.



Sunday, 16th August

Back to work tomorrow. We went food shopping Friday evening on our return, to have the weekend free to use the playroom. Then the slave was not well on Saturday. He had diarrhoea and was feverish. He had a stomach upset, as he could not even keep liquids down. I had to give him an IV, he was so weak. Sunday he felt better, and in the afternoon he insisted we had some time in the playroom.


Wednesday, 19th August

The slave was allowed to open the crate last evening. He methodically sorted it, it is mainly clothes, a few photos and memorabilia, which he has permission to display on his shelves, and some custom made bondage gear. He was very disappointed when he could not find the sleep sack, actually he got quite upset and thought they had forgotten to pack it. I had to intervene and bring him to reason. The next few days he will be busy cleaning everything, polishing the leather and integrating the items in our playrooms, deciding what he keeps where. He is so lucky to have 2 playrooms! And I am looking forward to trying the new gear! Unfortunately I have some night shifts coming up, so there won't be much time for play.



Sunday, 23rd August

We have been staying at the flat, the slave has resumed his routine of lessons and gym. I have been on nights, usually I manage to get some sleep at the hospital, but we have a heatwave again and that means everyone goes crazy. How did I manage without the slave? He prepares me some delicious, nutritious meals and organises the household, he can read my mind what I need in normal life, running me a bath when I just thought about having one, for example. But when he submits, he lets go and totally trusts me to take control of his body, and to some extent his mind.

Sometimes I find the future daunting, like the other day when we had that incident at the house. I have taken responsibility for him, he lives in a strange country, all his adult life things have been decided for him. Of course he is not dumb, he knows his own mind and has opinions about politics etc. But like he said, if it does not work between us, where will he go? His health issues as well, although he is very clued up about it and probably knows better than me how to look after himself, it is an additional responsibility for me. He is cooking a late lunch/early dinner at the moment as I have my last night shift tonight. He will spend the evening, maybe all night, with Per and Lasse. He has felt a bit lonely this week, being himself in the evening and in the mornings I catch up on sleep. Per has permission to use him, within boundaries, which include No sex. At the moment we are exclusive. He is still anxious about the separation from his family in Canada, and psychologically fragile. He knows I am in weekly contact with his old Mistress, but decided he does not want to hear about them.



Monday, 24th August

Talking about the xtra responsibility!

The slave was cleaning the Dungeon apartment today when he hit his head, not being familiar with the space, on some equipment. He hit it close to the left eye, and it swelled up quickly. He knew he needed some help, and luckily bumped into Per and Lasse on the stairs. Per used to be a nurse, so he took one look and decided a trip to A&E was required. They phoned me from the hospital, as there was a problem with the insurance. I was annoyed that they did not fetch me immediately, but also thankful for letting me sleep a bit longer. They had a bit of hassle at the hospital as they needed to do a CT scan and wanted the slave to remove his “necklace”. It took Per and Ben some time to convince them it was not removable and does not prevent him from having a CT. Luckily the swelling was on the outside, the pressure on the eyeball was fine and there was only minor bleeding. He had a headache and felt a bit dizzy.

He is now in his cell, resting. I just had a message the marriage certificate is approved, we can go to the tax office and pick it up. We have to fetch it personally, as we need to sign for it.



Tuesday, 25th August

The boy feels much better today, the swelling has gone down and it is bruised, and the eye bloodshot. He can see ok. He was quite unwell yesterday, he is not a good patient. He actually likes to be physically active, and he is almost a different person when he is in bondage. I think that is, among other things, what I like about him.

He decided to go his language lesson. I made him promise me to phone me if he feels ill. Yoga is out of the question this week, he is allowed to do some simple exercises at home, under my supervision. I went to the gym, I needed to release. We met afterwards and went to pick up the certificate. I think the clerk thought I had hit the boy, with his big shiner. He was a bit hesitant to hand us the paper. We had lunch (they boy did not have much appetite, he was getting a headache), then we went to the house by taxi. The boy asked for permission to rest in his cell. It is quiet in there and dark.



Wednesday, 26th August

I am so used to the slaves company by now, I missed him yesterday. I had to remind him several times to drink, and in the evening he drank his shake. He felt slightly better in the evening and we had a bath together. That tired him out again. I had got the sleepsack ready, I thought he deserved it. I blindfolded him and steered him into the playroom, where it was ready on the bench. He was so happy to see it, he gave me a long hug. He did not dare to ask if he could use it right away. I said: Well, get in then. I took my time to strap him in, we both savoured it.

He slept in it. I quite easily wake up to certain noises, and had he gotten into difficulties, I can be there quickly. This morning I knew he would be desperate to empty his bladder, so I sorted that with a bottle and then gave him a real slow handjob, after adding a gag and a hood. I had a lot of fun, but I also envied him. Afterwards we both needed a shower. We went out for breakfast. The boy savours his food, it is almost erotic to watch him eat. His illness allows him to eat normal, but he experienced some problems, and after some trial and error they found a system that suited him. Of course, there is an element of control in this system.

We spent the rest of the day at the house, me gardening, the slave polished his sleepsack. Sadly I do not fit into it, as I am slightly taller and more muscular. We are going back to the flat tonight, as I am working tomorrow morning.

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