Monday, 10 August 2015

Just a short update


Thursday, 27th August

Hospitals are a hot bed for gossip. I have worked here for 6 years now, and due to me being an anaesthetist, I know a lot of staff. It is common knowledge that I am gay, and I have been single for 3 years. I told quite a few colleagues that I would have a long term visitor, and I have had comments, accompanied by a big grin, that I have been in an unusual good mood lately. That Ben was here in the hospital on Monday spread like wildfire. I had to finalise some details about his insurance with the administrator in A&E, and some of the nurses said what a nice guy he is, how lucky I am and they thought he is very good looking, even with a swollen eye. I was a bit annoyed to be the topic of gossip, but then it was nice to hear he made a good impression. And at least it is positive gossip. I just had my weekly chat with Barbara ( appropriating hospital resources for private use, tsts). She looked tired, she has managed to get time off to care for Robert. The disease is progressing aggressively, and he has planned to end his life at a time when he chooses. He wanted to see the slave happily settled with a new master, so it was all decided within weeks. She was glad to hear we have received the certificate, and wanted to know our plans. We have not talked about it, I have to bring it up at an appropriate moment.

I have to write this tonight otherwise I will not be able to sleep. I am so worried about the boy. Over dinner I brought up the marriage ceremony. We have a rule that we have free conversation at dinner, it means the boy should not consider his position and speak his mind. He assures me his happy here, but this is an issue he now finds difficult to think about. It is all happening a bit too fast. I asked him why he did not object when we applied for the certificate, asked me to delay it, and he said that at that time he did not feel confident to object, I seemed so excited about it. He said he still thinks a lot about his other family he had to leave behind and how much he loves them. How much it hurts him that he cannot be with his old Master, whom he has been with for 9 years; to be with him in his final months. He almost begged me to understand that he is very grateful to me for taking him in, showing him so much love, being a good Master, he wants to be with me, but he needs a bit more time to sort his head and his heart. He was crying, he did not want to disappoint me. I answered he does not disappoint me, I understand his feelings and that I am the one who is grateful that I have been chosen to look after him since Robert cannot. I assured him that we can always re-apply for a certificate. He dropped to his knees in front of me, but I immediately pulled him up and embraced him. I gave him a kiss and he responded. Most of the time we have only kissed during sex, this was an emotional kiss. I gave him another hug, he relaxed in my arms. I told him to wash his face, and started clearing the dinner table.

Thursday is a TV show on we like to watch, but the slave said he had a headache and asked if he can be excused. After the program was finished, I checked on him, he was still awake. He said his mind could not settle. To be honest, I had been unable to concentrate onto the TV show either. He asked me if I would fuck him. Of course I wanted to fuck him, he makes me so horny I could fuck him all the time! I insisted we use my bed. In my time as slave, being invited to the Master's bed was rare, and an absolute privilege. He knows that, and this was only the second time he has shared a bed with me. I took it slowly, I fucked his vagina, I love fucking his vagina. He gave himself to me totally. He is now asleep in my bed. He looks so vulnerable. I am worried how he will react when I tell him about Robert. He said he did not want to know what is happening in Canada, but I have to prepare him for Robert's death soon.



Sunday, 30th August

I had to work all weekend, it has been very tough. I was the doctor during 2 emergency operations which the patients did not survive, and it was my turn to inform the families. I have made an appointment with our in-house counsellor to discuss my own family situation. Seeing the pain and shock in these families was difficult, how can I handle it when I eventually have to tell my beloved boy?

We spent a few hours at the house in the playroom, I prefer that room. I am afraid I caused him some pain. It is very rare for me to cause pain, I have never whipped anyone or used any other devices designed to cause pain. He took it well, he knew I had a bad time at work and this is my release. His eye has healed nicely, one can hardly see any bruising. On Saturday I allowed him to go to a yoga retreat, a few people from his class met at the gym and then went to Sodertalje for a few hours extensive yoga. He has started to become quite friendly with one woman, Sabine. I have met her briefly at the gym and approve.

The boy has been quiet since Thursday night, but then we actually have not had much time together. At some point during the night I woke up, something had disturbed me. The boy had moved to his cell. In Canada the 2 slaves had cells next to each other, I guess he must miss the company. Next week is slave and Master night again, I will encourage him to socialise with another slave.



Tuesday, 1st September

We are at the house, I have 3 days off. This morning the boy went to his tutor, then we met at the gym, he went to his yoga class, I did a work out. We had lunch together at home, I like to have lunch with him, then I can be sure he eats a proper meal. He should eat solid food once a day to keep his stomach and guts used to it.

The boy and Ingrid, his tutor, have become friends. She is actually a friend of my Master, and “knows”. She has been in the scene herself, but only recreational. She phoned me once to complain I had treated the boy too harshly. I must admit, we had gotten a bit carried away.

It was a lovely evening and we went for a walk and ended up at the pub where we had been when the boy asked me to be his Master and then offended me. It is the first time that we have been back there. I do not know if it was significant to the boy, but it means something to me. He said he had been thinking a lot the last few days. He has spoken to Ingrid about Thursday evening this morning and it has helped him to sort his head. He is not ready yet to set a date, but he would like to talk about details of the ceremony. He wanted to know what the procedure is now, where one can get married, who officiates, do we need witnesses, things like that. He asked me what my expectations are, if I see it as a formality or do I want to make it a party with friends and family? I told him I have not seriously thought about it, and we should figure it out between us how to proceed. I definitely want him to be equally involved. Of course for him it will be his 2nd marriage ceremony. I am afraid sometimes I assume the marriage was a formality for him, but it probably was more, I know he is very close to slave no1.





Wednesday, 2nd September

After the hassle at the hospital because of the boy's insurance, I have decided to take out private health insurance for him here in Sweden. The year long travel insurance policy only covers him for certain medical issues, of course they had to disclose his chronic “illness” (If it comes up, he tells people the stoma is due to Crohns disease, which he has not got, but people are satisfied, and it explains his funny eating habits.), and any treatment for that will be covered. As he is not working, he is not covered by state health cover, and he will only be entitled to it as my spouse once he has his permanent residency. I have made an appointment for us to see his general doctor, so they can get to know each other and the doctor is aware of his special situation. I specifically asked for the last appointment on a Friday, so we won't be rushed and the doctor does not get much chance to gossip to his staff or colleagues. Of course a doctor is under confidentiality, but we still gossip, about patients, not using names of course.

It was a beautiful day today, not too warm and we went on a boat ride on the lake to Drottningholm. I think I last was there during a school trip. The boy is very interested in culture, he told me today he has a degree in European history! There are so many things I do not know about him! When we go out we do not hold hands or show much affection, it is not because we are Master/slave, and not because I am afraid of homophobia, we just are both not keen on attracting attention. They boy had asked me how I expected him to behave towards me in public. To me he comes across as very confident in himself, with this life he has chosen. Although he certainly does not broadcast his status; with me and other people who we confide in, he is very open and actively encourages them to treat him like a slave. When I met him in Canada, the first time it was at a Master/slave convention, and of course he was with his family. They were an unusual set up at the convention, and through their internet presence well known. Barbara and Robert did allow me to have sex with him, we had a drink before, and chatted a bit, but I guess to him I was another “client”. Earlier this year they invited me to stay and I saw him in his home environment, and I was impressed by him. We did spend some one on one time together, Barbara and Robert very much encouraged it. Now I know it was because they were already planning the future for us. I have told him quite a bit about my past and what makes me tick, he has not been very forward with details about his past, only if I ask a specific question, and then I often get a short answer. I do not know if it is his personality, if he does not trust me in that way yet or if he does not want to open up, if it is still too painful to talk about his natural and kink family. I know from Barbara that he has tried to keep in contact with his family, but they have cut him off. His family is Roman Catholic and very conservative. He has 2 older brothers, 8 and 9 years older. He had a younger sister, whom he was very close to, but she died 4 years ago. She had joined a commune, and died during child birth, as they believed in “natural” birth. He only found out weeks after, when her friends sorted through her stuff and found some letters from him. His parents had been informed and buried her without contacting him, they have always had his address. He told me this when he unpacked his crate and showed me her photo. We had copies made of all his photos, this way he has a set at each house.

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