Tuesday, 25 August 2015

Ben is recovering and coming home


Tuesday, 27th October

It is so different seeing how a hospital operates from the other side. I went to see Ben in the morning, he was doing well. They changed the bandages again when I was there and they are very happy with his progress. He had no fever this morning, he has no pain and can eat a little.

I went across the street to the hotel. Well, it is a bit longer than across. Right opposite the hospital is a cemetery, which I always thought is a bit macabre.

So I went across to the hotel to have some lunch. Sonja from the events team recognised me and came over. She was very nice when she heard Ben is not well. We actually have not decided on a menu yet, and I warned her he might need special treatment on the day. He cannot have bubbly drinks, no alcohol, and it would be best if he has smaller portions. She said that will be no problem at all, and we can confirm this nearer the time. It really is a lovely spot, I must thank Ingrid for showing it to him.

In the afternoon Ben was still free of fever and we went up and down the corridor. He had to lean onto me, or maybe he pretended? It was nice to be able to hold him. Dr Fahji thinks, if he keeps improving, I can take him home Friday evening or Saturday morning.



I talked to Barbara yesterday, of course she is very concerned. I assured her Ben has the best treatment. Robert wanted to talk as well, Skype is sometimes not a good idea, one cannot hide facial expressions. There is medication which slows the disease down, but he does not take it. He said he is sad to miss Ben's birthday, and I should give him a special long hug and kiss from him. It is so painful to think about what will happen. Ben and I have had such a bad time lately, am I selfish when I say I want Robert to hang on as long as possible for our sake?



Wednesday, 28th October

I went to the gym and had a long session. I saw Sabine, I had forgotten to tell her about Ben. She ill visit him this afternoon. I am enjoying to have some extra time. I went to the house and checked everything. I had gardeners in to do the hedges. I am going to see Ben later.

I had his birthday all planned. I have a special collar for him, which used to be mine, it is a unique design, which is self locking. The collar goes around the neck, and has a buckle, then there is a strap, which can be at the front or at the back. One puts their hands in and if you pull down, it locks.

I used to love it. I have had it repaired and polished.

I have ordered him some books about European history, I checked with Barbara what is his special interest . We did spend some time in a book shop in London, and he was sad he could not buy many.

He likes to read before he goes to sleep.



Thursday, 29th October

What a strange day we had.

Ben's recovery is going very well, he has been fever free since Tuesday. He still has a bit pain, but mostly from moving around. He still gets antibiotics. He needs to be on antibiotics for a week, but they would be happy for me to do it at home. They just need to make sure his digestion works well, and he slowly increases his food intake, with a mixture of liquid and solid.

Of course I could not bring all the presents into the hospital. I did bring my laptop in to show Ben the messages from Canada. He is still having his tea party, we asked everyone to come for 4pm, but definitely not earlier. Around 3pm is a lull, when staff are busy with other things, so Ben had some peace and quiet to watch his messages. It was hard to watch him. I felt such an outsider. I had offered to leave, but he wanted me there. He asked me how Robert is, the message had clearly been recorded some months ago. I had to be honest with him. I told him I saw him on Skype on Monday

and was shocked by his appearance. He was out of breath quickly when he talked to me. I think it will be very soon. Ben just went his usual quiet. I wanted to hug him, but he went stiff. He has never done that before. I asked if he wanted some time alone, and he just nodded. I stood in front of the door so that I could make sure no-one enters; and to listen out for him. I still get jealous, am I horrible?

It was nearly 4pm, so I knocked and entered the room shortly afterwards. The boy was in the bathroom, washing his face. Soon his friends arrived, and we went to the lounge. They had supplied everything, chocolate cake, tea and coffee, balloons, candles. We sang happy birthday and he looked exceedingly happy. We had agreed no presents, but everyone had brought something anyway. Sabine brought a Tibetan prayer flag, Ingrid her old book of Pippi Longstocking, and Per and Lasse are knitting him a jumper in a traditional design, it is not finished, they needed to try it for size. He was overwhelmed and was crying again. We took a nice photo. After an hour he was tired, I took him back to his room and then went home with all his presents.



Friday, 30th October

I went to the hospital in the afternoon, Ben had seen Dr Fahji in the morning, he is very happy with the progress and I can take him home Saturday. I am enjoying my time off.



Saturday, 31st October

We came home late morning. He wanted to put his belt on and a plug in. He had asked me to bring him a plug into the hospital, but I had refused. During the week he said to me, he wished I could be more of a Master in public, like the situation with the photo, he is used to it. In his small town in Canada the slaves were taken into public restrained, and only strangers stared. Well, this is Stockholm, and despite our reputation for free sex and liberal attitudes, like most places, BDSM is still an awkward topic for people. I responded that I will try, but being a 24/7 Master is pretty new for me and I am not as confident as he is to broadcast it. We went into his room and I helped him get the belt on, and I had chosen a plug for him. He made me so horny, and I knew he was as well, we had a good fuck up his vagina, he hand to hold onto to the bars of his cell as if his life depended on it.

I had prepared the presents, I already put the books on his shelves, so he only noticed them after a while, and was very surprised. He liked them very much. I showed him the collar, he loved it and tried it out immediately. I bought him some nipple rings, which we put in. It was a bit fiddly and I caused him some pain, but he likes a bit of pain. I made us lunch, he ate well. He is getting his antibiotics via an IV, due to his diet tablets would not have the same effect, he cannot absorb all of the medication properly. After lunch I put his IV in. Always makes me a bit uncomfortable, medicating him professionally. He opted to have it in his cell, while he rested a bit. “Normal” people probably baulk at the thought that he has a cell, but he is used to it, and it is his safe place. He asked if we can do some bondage, I told him to wait at least until tomorrow.

Later in the afternoon he wanted to record some messages to his Canadian family. We had fun doing that, he wanted to show the flat, and he was very enthusiastic, he was describing his home. We recorded separate messages for slave no1, Barbara and then he wanted to record something for Robert by himself. After quite some time he came into the living room, handed me the camera and said could I send the messages, but he needed more time to do the message for Robert.

I just sent the videos, they were small enough files to be e-mailed. I have notified them another film will follow.

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