Tuesday, 6 September 2016

An interesting experience at the club


Thursday, 3rd May

It feels different to be back at work, as I know it is long term now. I did operations today, just routine stuff. We had some good banter. I came home and cooked!

Yesterday I had eaten at the hospital, so kind of had the evening to myself. I decided to go the club. I did not bother to check what is on. So I stumbled into a hetero couple night. They had organised to have a talk by a massage therapist. I was chosen as a volunteer for her to demonstrate on. Oh, it was nice! Then we had a break and the 2nd part was about erotic massage and touch. Ohoh. She offers courses to couples or to groups. I asked if she was prepared to come to a men only night. She is open to it. We had a good talk. She has never had a gay couple in her classes, and we talked a bit about bondage and it's effect. She has no experience there. I asked her how she got into it; her husband has a stoma and had other health issues, so full sex is difficult. She mentioned that a lot of people who come to her do so after health issues, and scars are often an issue. Do I know it!

Our new space, with it's little stage, worked really well for someone like her to give a presentation, and I think it would be popular to invite more speakers. I am just glad I did not try to go on Tuesday, it was the dykes evening. They actually hire the space from us and bring their own staff in.


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